So I'm getting out of the military and moving from Cali back to Ohio. The Marines will not pay to ship either my car (03 Tiburon) or my wife's Edge. So instead of us driving seperate for 3 days, I was looking at towing mine with hers. Here's the problems: My car weighs in at about 3000 lbs., and the trailer dolly from Uhaul says weighs 650. Which puts us over 3500 lbs. by 150 or so. Is the 3500 rating for the Edge itself, or for the hitches most commonly installed? If we went ahead and towed it anyways, besides breaks, what's the weakest link on the Edge that I should look out for?? If we do decide to go this route, I will probably end up buying a trans cooler, so I'm not worried about that. I just really don't trust my heavily modified car to a shipping company, not to mention it's gonna cost over a grand to ship it. Thanks in advance.