Ok I suspected a connection issue, because android auto did load Everytime,then die momments later. So I tried another USB cable... and it works.
I'm actually all setup in about 1 minute once I turn my Edge on.
Fingers crossed and prayers that tomorrow greats me with the same good news
I am believing my dedicated to the edge cell can be on and connected all the time and is seemlessly working when I turn my SUV on. FEELING CLOSE HERE! I can smell sucess