Well, as far as short term ownership, I usually don't either. But she blew the motor in her car right when we separated, and this is something her grandpa helped her buy, was literally the only thing available at the time that had enough space for the kids and their all their gear that was in the price range, and it's a HUGE POS. I've done nothing but work on it since we got back to speaking terms. We even rekindled, sold this to her friend and she drove my Durango that I bought to run kids around as to not have to unload my quad cab pickup to fit kids in the back seat. But we split up and her friend wasn't making payments like agreed, so she took it back, since I took my Durango back...kinda, she wrecked it and I just refused to fix it cuz we weren't on good terms. She experienced the dating world again and came running back, and now this POS is my headache yet again. So I might be fixing just enough to get it sold and let her drive the Durango again, until I get the trans rebuilt (about a 4 yr project now) on her Grand Cherokee, then let her take that back.