Lowering all windows down - only possible if vehicle has auto up/down on all windows (like Focus for sure and maybe Fusion).
Mirror tilt on reverse - has been described several times check Omar302 post back in February
DRL on - I did it on mine 2018, not sure about 2019+
Default audio volume - havent heard about that, not sure
Cyclop brake - BCM doesnt support that feature. I heard Europe Fusion can have that enabled
Interior light intensity - available on Sync 3 screen as you have figured, no mods needed.
Sunroof - not sure, I think mine did it once with sunshield closed when I pushed open sunroof button, dont remember, have to check
Rear wiper - turns on in reverse if your wipers are in auto and working, not sure if any other options available
Towing - I think there is a module for that. So, you need to buy it and wire it and so on, not as easy. You probably wanna consult with your dealer.