Wow, trading in the car you bought (probably for next to nothing) without even consulting with you is pretty damn selfish and impulsive. But look at her role model... good grief. That would probably be it for me... but you obviously know the history better than I do. Like I said before, going from my ex who had absolutely no sense with money and was determined to rack up as much debt as possible to my wife who is just as, if not more frugal as I am has been very very nice. We don't even have disagreements about money, let alone fight about it. :happy feet: